Stories

It will take the voices of many to stop stigma and discrimination in our community. This collection includes real, first-hand stories of everyday people from Sacramento County who are living with or supporting someone living with a mental health condition. By telling their stories, our Speakers Bureau members aim to inspire hope, wellness, recovery and positivity for families and individuals experiencing mental illness. As you read on, you may find that mental illness is not always what you think.

Speakers’ Bureau Stories

Bill Marr

My name is Bill Marr, I’m 47 years old, I live in Folsom California with my wife Kristina and my 3 children…

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Claudia Fernandez-Niedzielski

It was a cold, February night in Lester, Iowa in 1992 when the world as I knew it changed forever. I was staying with members of the family who had hosted me as an exchange student in 1986. Suddenly, I was awakened by bright lights that begged me to follow them.

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Evan Marmol

Hello, my name is Evan. I live with mental illness, specifically OCD and depression. If you’re reading this, you might recognize me as your therapist, colleague, neighbor or friend.

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Kim Frisella

November 25. That was the date. I wrote it on my calendar and even used it as my password at work. My Date of Death. 

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La Viola Ward

I grew up in a household where mental health was not a ‘thing’. Our home was headed by a strong, black single mother who worked her fingers to the bone. We had a strict Pentecostal household and rejected of any secular or “worldly” living. In our world, you laid hands in prayer on someone suffering […]

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Vanessa Nino-Tapia

When I was 22, I had everything to look forward to. I was accepted into graduate school, was planning my wedding…

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Nancy Alpert

There are so many things I would like to do—like keep the house organized, clean the kitchen and empty the garbage…

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Michael Hansen

Even as a boy, I knew something was wrong. Not just the typical kid stuff, but serious swings in my mood…

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Lina Lee

Sad. Anxious. Lonely. Hopeless and in despair. These are some signs of depression. Nobody would choose…

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Laura Bemis

Hi my name is Laura and I am in my mid 50’s and have been living with a mental illness for over 30 years…

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Aileen Elikorasmythe-Jones

I died this year as (Elaina’) in 2020 to be reborn and beginning my life as (Aileen) because…

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Diane Mintz

I was trained in 2013 by Stop Stigma Speakers’ Bureau to learn how to share my story and now I am blessed…

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Alan Candee

I have found that success in life can be expressed as having two components: (1) making good choices…

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Abby Rotstein

My name is Abby and I’ve been living with OCD since I was 10 years old. I didn’t start talking about…

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Would you like to request a Speaker for your next event? Please complete the Speaker Request Form by following the guidelines outlined on the application. A member of the “Mental Illness: It’s not always what you think” project Stop Stigma Sacramento Speakers Bureau team will contact you within five business days of receiving your request.

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